The decision to home school your child can
be a difficult one to make. Many parents wonder if it is the
right thing to do. Many wonder if their children can get the
same “grade” of education if they are homeschooled.
There are many reasons why parents choose to
homeschool their kids. For many it is because they want to add
religious content to their children’s learning experience.
Making the decision to home school is
usually a very difficult not and it is not one to be taken
lightly. It is a personal decision that no one can make for
you, but maybe I can help in the thought process by providing
you with a comprehensive guide to making the choice to
homeschool your kids a successful one.
When making the homeschool decision, you
must first consider these things:
1. Time commitment that is involved.
Homeschooling has a tendency to take up a lot of time in your
day. It involves more than just sitting down with books for a
couple of hours. There are experiments and projects that have
to be done, lessons to prepare, papers to grade, field trips,
park days, music lessons, and the list just keeps on going. You
can go online and search for some sample schedules that will
help to give you an idea of a typical day.
2. Personal
sacrifice. The homeschooling parent has very little personal
time or time alone and away from their children. If a lot of
care is not taken to set aside time for yourself, it is easy
for the parent to feel overwhelmed. Basically, the parent and
child are together 24 hours a day and this can get frustrating
on both sides.
3. Financial problems can arise.
Homeschooling can be accomplished with very little cost to you;
however, it usually requires that the teaching parent will not
be working out of the home. Some sacrifices will need to be
made if the family is used to two incomes. Of course, if you
are a single parent, this could pose an even bigger
problem.
4. Time for socialization. More
attention will need to be given to getting your children
together with his/her peers. The best part of homeschooling is
being able to have more control of the social contacts your
child makes. However, the downside is that you must prepare
your child yourself on how to socialize with other kids.
Homeschooling has a tendency to make your child feel
isolated.
5. Household organization is harder.
Housework and laundry and other house work will still have to
be done, but it probably won't get done first thing in the
morning. If you are a neat freak, you might be in for a big
surprise. Not only does housework need to be let go at times,
but homeschooling creates messes and clutter on its own. You
will have to get organized so that you can keep your home
together.
6. Both parents must agree to it. It is important that
both parents agree to homeschooling. It is very difficult for
this to work if one of the parents is against it. If your
spouse is against it at this time, try doing more research and
talking to more people so that you can be absolutely certain it
is something that both of you can agree upon. Otherwise, the
chances for success are much smaller.
7. Your child has
to be willing. A willing student is crucial to the success of
homeschooling. Ultimately, the decision is the parents to make,
but if your child is dead against it, you might have a very
difficult time in teaching them. The fact of the matter is that
an unwilling child can sabotage his/her own school efforts.
8. Know that it works one year at a time. It isn't a
lifetime commitment and doesn’t have to become one. If you find
that homeschooling just isn’t worth it, you can choose to go
the regular route.
There is a lot more to homeschooling than to
just do it. As a parent, you must know that your child’s
education is the most important factor in his/her future. You
need to be thoroughly prepared for all of the time and
commitment that is involved. If you are thinking of choosing
homeschooling for your child (ren), this guide will help to
make it a successful transition. So let’s get started.